Yes, Your Honour
We can’t avoid ourselves from judging. Everyday we judge ppl, what they do, what they wear and how they behave. I’m not mad, coz I sometimes DO judge ppl. It just happened, JUST now..
I saw this couple, a married couple with 3 children. As I walked to the parking space, at first I saw the husband walking towards me, and about 10 steps further I bumped into the preggy wife walking the same way. I don’t get it. They must have gotten out from the same car and both are going to the same direction but why they couldn’t make their way together? So my immediate judgement went like this, oh the husband is no longer romantic, cannot wait for his preggy wife who cannot walk fast enough, poor wife, or maybe the husband don’t like to be seen walking with the wife for some reasons, I don’t know.. wow .. I AM judging ..
But really, kesian wife dia tadi. Having been a preggy myself made me emphaty with all preggies I met. If holding her hands is hard enough for you at least walk with her la.. adehhh..
And yes, speaking of judging;
There is a friend of mine who recently got married to a Miss J, (see how very judgemental our ppl are by giving a nickname to a divorcee) and another friend told that Miss J is actually does not that in love with my friend and that she is into someone else who is already engaged (married now) and they still went out together even though both are engaged and that she married with my friend because he loves her so much. Phewww.. that Miss J must be very hawttt.. Hawt ppl always get into this complicated tied up. (Like myself.. hawhawhaw)
I don’t care. But the issue is, that story, or rather gossip, have put me into this perspective, in such a way that, when I see the husband, saya akan kesian pada dia, saya akan pandang dia dgn pandangan simpati, as if knowing that his wife doesn’t love him and have someone else, poor him that the Miss J married him for his duit and harta, kesian, kesian.. and when I see the wife, I don’t know, I have this bad impression, I see her as a bad person.. and having seen her almost everyday made me realize, I have to stop being a JUDGE! That’s why you can’t talk about other ppl’s private life esp. the bad ones coz it will put perspective on others, coz ppl judge!
