de-stressing
I’m writing from Secret Recipe, Sri Gombak.
Enjoying Chicken Lasagna, Choc Cheese Berries & Ice-bended Cappuccino (great.. flu has not recovered since last week and now having ice-blended)
I don’t feel guilty though for having all these icy cheesy fatty food, this is the whole point, it’s a reward, OK, reward. For working & studying hard and for going through the obstacles and for the sacrifice and for emotional challenge and for ALL that worth a lasagna and a cheese cake!
Well as much as I love Maths and calculations, but I don’t count calories, no thanks. Let the cheese stick around my butt, u don’t mind dontcha?
Two days ago I had a solo-lunch at the sekolah perniagaan, after a revision. While having the meal, someone was asking to sit at the same table. I looked up and it was an old friend from school, now doing the same course with me. This was our conversation during the lunch:
Him : Nasib baik ko ada, klau take aku lunch sorg la.
Me: So klau lunch sorg nape?
Him: Takde la, boring la sorg2. Eh kan girls take suka lunch sorg2 nnt mcm segan klau org ngorat.. hehe
Me: Hello.. aku bukan girls OK, aku ni mak orang. Mana de org nak ngorat.
Him: Haa tu la ko silap, org taktau ko ni mak org, mana tau terngorat ke..
Me: Haa tu la ko silap, w/pun org taktau aku ni mak org, tp aku sedar diri OK..
Him: Oh ye ke.. bagus la, susah nakcari org cam ko sekarang..
……
Really? Is it hard to find ‘org mcm aku skrg’
There was article I read recently, showing a stats in our country that % of wanita curang is higher than man, but I think it takes two to become curang.
I know of a person who’s married with four children and curang with her husband. A real person. Not a gossip on our local celebs, but an ordinary woman who wears tudung to work, potraying a Muslimah style and being a role model to the society. Nobody would believe that she has this man called ‘kekasih’, even her husband wouldn’t believe this.
Only God knows how I came to know this. I did not believe this at first.
The instance I know about her cheating on her husband I felt sooo JIJIK, disgusting, that’s the word.
But after some istighfar I quickly pray to God that I will be in His guidance forever and not ever condoning such act.
Forget about infidelity, trustworthiness or truthfulness to our partners, have u not thought about DOSA? For a wife, only having the thought of another man in your mind or heart is already a sin, and this is like having a real affair with someone else. What were you thinking? I don’t know, I honestly don’t understand.
Sometimes I think, the world would have been better if a husband only cares about his only wife and children and vice versa.
Teringat satu do a ‘Jangan lah kau memalingkan hati ini setelah Kau memberi hidayah kepada kami’ ..
